This article is not going to provide you with a way out of your own mess, because clearly, you are more versed in your mess than anyone telling you what it is like. This article will also not offer you the missing ingredient to juice up the steak chops a bit further, nor will it force you to juice up your life for the better, a bit further.

Let me tell you one thing, that we all commonly share: our lives are all a mess of our own, that no one better knows about, than us. And our lives are all a one-of-a-kind mess that better describes us to ourselves for who we badly are, and the hot-mess we have become. Encapsulated, it is the metric identifier that elucidates what we unfortunately stand for as of this point, and the work which must commence for change. More intriguingly, no one has the answer to our messy-mess, than us! It is not the world for what it is, not your boss who keeps nagging you, nor your colleagues that you cannot bear patience with no more. It is correspondingly not your neighbour that never cleans the lawn, or yourself…

That you can no longer love, for what life has become in front of it…

A hot, messy-mess…

When one lives believing that life can be the mess it is, without altering it for clarity, you live with deficiency. That deficiency tends to rot you even beyond the mess that your eyes now see, and that is consequential to the lack of concern in caring for the mess, now! In essence, you become blinded from living peacefully and productively. Tragically, your life becomes a floundering idea of merely living…

Do not wait until life spirals out of control. Do not wait until you can no longer handle the hot-mess you are in, and lose the vigour to change your reality, before it becomes unbearable. Do not wait until the thought of living becomes a tragedy for you, by the day. Your only option is to start now, and that is by decluttering your life from what it does not need—which has veiled you from your truest positioning in life of peace and productivity. That must be done by chronologically prioritizing your values. This will set your tune right, away from being a hot, messy-mess.

Here are some tips for you begin living, peacefully and productively:

1. Find what means the most you. This is often easier to think about than initiating. It does not mean finding everything that means the most you, because so much can mean a lot to each one of us. It means to really find your values that, with everything that can mean the world to you, if you were not to care and fulfill them, you strongly believe your life will define a hot messy-mess to you. Even a nastier mess. A good way to start learning about what you care about the most, is by asking yourself, “What will provide me and my loved ones with the most meaning in life?” “What will truly make me the happiest person, and well-accomplished for myself and loved ones?”
2. Declutter what does not mean the most to you. This step serves as the sequel to the preceding one. Its prominence is as crucial as your regaining of your lost pre-eminence to yourself. Once you have realized that there is so much in life that means the most to you, but that you cannot hold onto it all, and grabbed a tight hold on the most meaningful values, you need to start cleaning. That means start putting away anything that will get in the way of your heading towards the now owned, meaningful values. I must mention that putting the other important values in your life does not denote that they shall never be revisited. It means for you, as of this point in your life’s stage, to find and focus on what will prosper you, in correlation with what rings the loudest to you, NOW! Once you have figured out your most valuable assets, begin shelfing them in your room—in clear sight. You need to exactly choose what will erase the hot messy-mess in your life, and replace it with the items that have been the arousal of it.
3. Start polishing your assets. As of this point, you may have thought that you had picked the most meaningful values to your life, but you may feel ambiguous about your choosing, and that is completely fine. This stage is important and it is called the polishing phase because it is where you sit with yourself and converse with alongside it. You ought to ask yourself if these valuable assets are really what demarcate the most to you from everything you have subtracted. The sense of belief and conviction within you, must stem in all your chosen and valued assets. Why? Because it can very well prove that it lives opposite in meaning to what you are seeking, and so its value does not really carry real weight, just yet. Once you have anchored your belief and conviction in what will conclusively benefit you, you are close to clearing your life from the hot messy-mess that seemingly is drying up as of this point. That is a good sign.
4. Work on your life. That seems quite big for a title, but it really is not. It purely means to start working on surgically implanting the missing metals within you, that have been limping you all over your life, and life! You can either smile or laugh here. This is a difficult phase, but this is why the preceding point is extremely important, and that is the stage of belief and conviction. It is here where you are provided with the will to move and actualize change, away from your hot messy-mess.

If your life is lurching all over your horizon, grab a hold of it today, before it transcends a stage of ruin and demise—that will prevent you from favourably ever favourably grabbing a hold of it. You can either rot in your hot messy-mess ceaselessly, or be the reason for its clarity towards a peaceful, productive and meaningful presence.

The options are within your decision, right now.